When what matters to you has changed —and pushing through no longer works
You may not be unhappy.
You may even be doing well.
And yet something feels… off. Not wrong. Not broken. Just no longer aligned.
This is a common experience in midlife, when what matters to you has quietly shifted — and the life you’ve built hasn’t yet adjusted.
If this feels familiar, you’re not imagining it
If doesn’t usually arrive with a single, dramatic moment. It creeps in quietly.
You may notice that:
- things you once cared deeply about don’t carry the same weight
- roles that used to define you feel looser, or heavier
- you’re questioning choices you made in good faith — without knowing what you’d choose instead
- you feel more emotional, more reflective, or more tired of holding everything together
Many women notice this in midlife, when priorities shift and old roles no longer fit in the same way.
Why effort alone doesn’t settle this feeling
You might notice that today :
- you keep pushing yourself when what you really need is a pause
- you overthink decisions that used to come easily
- you try to do what makes sense on paper — even when it doesn’t feel right
And you're not getting it wrong.
You’re just in a different stage of life now — and the old way of navigating it doesn’t quite fit anymore.
This creates tension. And over time, it’s exhausting.
You don't needs fixing.
But it does need to be understood —
if you want things to feel easier again.
The vivify values snapshot
The vivify values snapshot gives you a clear, personal view of what’s shaping how this stage of life feels — beneath the surface.
Not to label you. Not to tell you who to be
But to help you understand more about
- what’s quietly pulling at your energy and attention
- why certain situations feel heavier than others
- why decisions that “make sense” don’t always feel right
For many women, this is where things begin to feel clearer.
How it works
You’ll answer a short set of questions - 10 in total — you don't have to overthink them, just whatever feels right.
Then you’ll receive your vivify values Personal Snapshot, sent straight to your inbox.
It takes around 2–5 minutes.
That’s it.
A quick word before you start
This isn’t a test.
And it’s not about putting you into a category.
There are no right or wrong answers.
No scores.
Nothing you need to prepare for.
You’re simply answering honestly, based on how life feels for you right now.
That’s enough.
FAQs
Our Values Snapshot FAQs answer common questions about how the snapshot works, what your results mean, and how they can guide your next steps. This section is designed to give you clarity and confidence as you explore your personal values.
They may look simple, but they’re built on over 40 years of global research into human values and motivation.
You can keep your free snapshot, or — if you want deeper clarity — book a call with me to take a deeper dive.
Yes. You’ll get a 2–3 page personalised snapshot right away.
Just 2–3 minutes.
Ready for a clearer picture?
The Values Snapshot gives you a quick, practical view of what’s shaping your decisions right now — and where things may be out of sync.
Free • Takes 2 minutes • Insight delivered to your inbox